Living and Loving as an Aries Moon

V R Singh
6 min readOct 1, 2024

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You might think an Aries Moon would be satisfied with a calm, reflective moment, but that would be like asking a lion to settle for a salad. Their emotions come fast and furious, and there’s no time for the dainty subtleties of introspection. “Who has time for that?” they’d ask with a laugh, just before plunging headfirst into the nearest drama, grinning like someone who’s just heard that dessert is served first. Their inner world, veiled beneath a demeanour of unshaken confidence, simmers with the restlessness of untold passions. You might pass them on the street and mistake them for mere mortals, but beneath their cool exterior lies a fire that burns without restraint, consuming everything in its path. In a world where feelings are seldom spoken, these individuals feel with a ferocity that both propels and destroys them.

They live as though each emotion is their last, driven by an uncontrollable force to experience life in its rawest form. There is no moderation here — no pause for reflection, no space for doubt. Love, anger, joy, frustration — each emotion ignites within them with the swift unpredictability of a match struck in the dark. And like that same match, their fire blazes hot and bright, then fades just as quickly, leaving behind only the scent of something profound, something lost.

It would be easy to dismiss the impulsiveness of an Aries Moon as mere recklessness, but to do so would be to misunderstand the very nature of their existence. They don’t act from a space of defeat, but from an instinct so powerful it overtakes reason. Their emotions — bold and brash — swell and break against the shores of life, uncaring of consequence. They do not dwell in the delicate waters of introspection. No, their feelings come, like waves against a rocky coast, unrelenting and unstoppable.

If you were to peer inside their heart at the moment of anger, you wouldn’t see a slow simmer, but an eruption — a volcanic outpouring that demands release. And just as suddenly as it comes, it passes, leaving behind an eerie calm that can disarm those who witness it. Unlike Scorpio and Capricorn, they don’t harbor grudges; they don’t simmer in resentment. Life moves too fast for such indulgences.

But this same intensity makes them ill-suited for the quieter moments in life. The slow unfolding of emotions that others might cherish — these are moments that Aries Moon finds unbearable. Why wait, why contemplate, when life is happening all around them, wild and unchecked? Theirs is a soul forever in motion, chasing after something they can never quite name.

And so, they move through life with a sense of independence that is both admirable and tragic. Freedom, for them, is not a choice but a necessity, a force as essential as the air they breathe. To be confined, to be tethered by obligation or convention, is to suffocate. They wear their independence like a badge of honor, yet there is a loneliness in it too, a silent sorrow that lingers behind their eyes.

Independence is not so much a choice for an Aries Moon as it is a non-negotiable, immutable law of the universe — like gravity or the necessity of condensed milk with Sleepy Owl Cold Brew. The mere suggestion of confinement sends a shudder down their spine, and any attempt to pin them down is met with the kind of side-eye usually reserved for slow walkers. “I love you, but can you not stand so close?” is the vibe they often give off in relationships. I double-triple dare you to try and bottle this individual, both Suns and Moons for that matter. It’s the easiest way to push them away.

It’s not that they don’t want love. No, they’re suckers for it, but in the same way a child craves adventure — wild and free, no logic in the way. They are masters of the disappearing act: one minute you’re laughing, the next minute they’re halfway across the world and your WhatsApp beeps with, “Wish you were here… sort of.” Don’t worry, though — they’ll always come back. But don’t be surprised if they bring a stranger they met on the way and some weird new hobby that makes no sense.

Their partners, if they are wise and want to stay, will learn not to cage this tornado. I know of a particular Aries Sun, whose idiot husband has tried his level best, yet refuses to learn. His ego will soon be destroyed and his Aquarius Moon will eventually allow him to learn. To love an Aries Moon is to love the untamable, the unpredictable, the one who will run through fields of their own creation, only to disappear over the horizon when the night grows too still. There are few who can keep pace with their speed, and even fewer who would dare to try.

When an Aries Moon loves, it is a love that scorches. They dive right into romance, throwing caution to the wind, unafraid of the fall. For them, love can never be a slow dance, it’s a Daler Mehendi song. Each movement feels like a dare, and each glance, a declaration. Their passion is overwhelming, and for those who dare to match their intensity, it can be intoxicating. But for those unprepared, it can be a flame that burns too bright, too fast.

In the heat of their affections, an Aries Moon demands all of you. There is no halfway, no hesitancy. If you cannot offer them the same wild abandon, they will leave, though perhaps not without a backward glance, wistful for what might have been. For them, the thrill of the chase is as intoxicating as the love itself. Theirs is a heart that yearns for the impossible, for the kind of love that transcends the mundane. Anything less feels like a betrayal of their very nature.

But there is a fragility beneath that brazen exterior, a subtle vulnerability that they themselves probably never even recognize. They need love, but they need freedom more. And so, they walk the tightrope of desire and independence, never fully sure which side they will land on.

Conflict is to an Aries Moon what coffee is to the rest of us — necessary, invigorating, and sometimes a little too strong. They don’t shy away from a fight; in fact, they kind of like it. They’ll engage in a verbal sparring match with the same energy they reserve for spontaneous road trips. But don’t worry — there’s no malice here. For them, arguments are just part of the game of life. They’re the type to get into a heated debate about veg biryani vs pulao (which, of course, they will defend passionately) and then shrug it off like it was no big deal. “Hey, it’s just food.”

Yet, they are not cruel in their battles. They fight with honesty and directness, never scheming, never manipulating. And when the dust settles, they are the first to offer a hand in peace. Grudges are for the weak, for those who have time to waste on bitterness. An Aries Moon has no such luxury. Life is too fleeting, too precious to be spent in anger. And so, they forgive, though they may not always forget.

In their careers, as in their personal lives, the Aries Moon seeks the rush of challenge, the thrill of the unknown. Like Sagittarius, they are allergic to routine. They need the pulse of excitement, the promise of new horizons, to feel alive. Whether they are leading the charge in business or exploring the world, they are always in motion, always seeking, always yearning for more.

And in those rare moments when the world grows quiet and the moon hangs heavy in the night sky, there is a stillness within them, a momentary pause. It is then that they feel the weight of their restlessness, the knowledge that no matter how far they run, they will never quite catch the thing they seek. But still, they chase it, because to stop would be to admit defeat, and that is a notion they simply cannot abide.

To live under the Aries Moon is to live with a fire that never dims, a heart that never truly rests. These individuals burn brightly, moving through life with a reckless grace that both enchants and bewilders. They are warriors of emotion, lovers of passion, and seekers of freedom. And though they may never find the peace they long for, it is the very pursuit of it that makes their existence so captivating.

They are the flame in the night, the brief and brilliant burst of light that leaves its mark on everyone it touches.

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V R Singh
V R Singh

Written by V R Singh

V. R. Singh is an Indian author, playwright and entrepreneur.

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